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The Seven Principles of Unbecoming

This is where it all begins. Before you can shed who you are not, you must first change the way you see. For so many of us, our suffering comes from a rigid, black-and-white worldview that labels our experiences as “good” or “bad,” “right” or “wrong.” We judge ourselves, we fight with reality, and we exhaust ourselves trying to solve the beautiful complexity of our own lives.
 
This foundational course gently dismantles that thinking. It introduces you to the seven core principles that underpin the entire Unbecoming You philosophy—principles that invite you into a more compassionate, expansive, and honest way of being with yourself and the world. You will learn to embrace your inner contradictions, move beyond dualism, build a bridge to your younger self, and access the inherent wholeness that has always been within you.
 
This isn’t about learning more information; it’s about creating a new, more resilient foundation for your inner world. It’s the essential first step on the path of coming home.
 
This course is for you if:
  • You feel caught in endless cycles of self-judgment and shame.
  • You are tired of seeing life as a series of problems to be solved.
  • You are ready to embrace the messy, beautiful complexity of being human.
 
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