Sometimes the journey requires a guide.

Why work with me?

The courses, the books, the podcasts—they are all powerful tools for self-discovery. But sometimes, the path of unbecoming asks for something more. It asks for a witness, a mirror, a dedicated space held exclusively for you.

Working with me 1-on-1 is the most intimate and accelerated path to transformation available. It’s for those moments when you feel stuck in a pattern you can’t see, when a major life transition requires deeper support, or when you simply know that you cannot walk this part of the road alone. This is not about fixing you; it’s about helping you remember the person you have always been, beneath it all.

The Unbecoming Intensive

The Unbecoming Intensive is a highly personalized, 3-month coaching experience for those ready to do the deep work of coming home to themselves. This is for the high-achiever experiencing burnout, the person in the midst of a major life transition, or the student of this work who wants dedicated, one-on-one support to integrate these principles into the fabric of their life.

Over our three months together, we will move beyond the surface level and dive into the heart of what’s holding you back. We will identify the patterns keeping you stuck, gently tend to the wounds driving your behavior, and create a life that feels not just successful on paper, but deeply aligned with your soul.

The Unbecoming Intensive is for you if:

You want personalized, focused guidance on your unbecoming journey.
You are navigating a major life change (career, relationship, identity) and need a supportive space to process it.
You feel stuck in a cycle of burnout and self-sabotage and are ready for a new way of being.
You live anywhere in the world and are ready for deep, transformational work.

What’s Included in the 3-Month Intensive:

Six 60-Minute Video Coaching Sessions: We’ll meet bi-weekly for deep, personalized guidance tailored to your unique journey.
Unlimited Email and Voice Memo Support: You’ll have direct access to me between our calls for support, questions, and reflections. I’ll respond within 24-48 business hours.
Full Course Bundle Access: You will receive complimentary access to the entire six-course Unbecoming You curriculum for the duration of our coaching engagement.
Session Recordings: You’ll receive a recording of each session to revisit key insights and practices at your own pace.
Personalized Practices: You will receive custom somatic practices, journaling prompts, and exercises designed specifically for your nervous system and transformation goals.

Due to the intimate nature of this work, I only take on 14 active coaching clients at a time. All potential clients go through a brief application process to ensure we are a good fit for this deep work.

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About Your Guide

Hello, I’m Lacey. While our work together in a coaching capacity is focused on your present and future, I believe it’s important for you to know the foundation upon which my guidance rests. My approach is not based on fleeting trends or surface-level motivation; it is deeply rooted in over a decade of clinical training and a lifelong exploration of the human condition.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with extensive post-graduate training in the most effective, evidence-based modalities for healing trauma and fostering deep, lasting change. My work is grounded in a profound understanding of the nervous system, attachment theory, and the intricate ways our past experiences shape our present reality.

My Professional Toolkit Includes:

Internal Family Systems (IFS): A powerful, compassionate model for understanding and healing the different parts of ourselves.
Somatic Experiencing (SE): A body-based approach to healing trauma and regulating the nervous system.
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing): A highly effective therapy for processing traumatic memories.
NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM): A specialized model for healing developmental and complex trauma.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): A modality focused on understanding and transforming emotional patterns in our relationships with others and ourselves.
Certified Complex Trauma Professional (Level 2): Advanced certification in understanding and working with the nuances of complex and developmental trauma.

While coaching is distinct from therapy—we do not diagnose or treat clinical conditions—this deep clinical background is the bedrock of our work together. It means I am not just listening to your words; I am attuned to the subtle cues of your nervous system. I am not just helping you set goals; I am helping you understand the deeper patterns and beliefs that may be holding you back.

My path has taken me from owning yoga studios to building a private therapy practice, and through it all, one truth has remained constant: we are not broken, and we do not need to be fixed. We simply need to be witnessed, understood, and guided back to the wisdom that already exists within us.

In our coaching relationship, I bring all of this to the table—the clinical expertise, the spiritual inquiry, and the lived experience of my own unbecoming journey. I am not here as a guru with all the answers, but as a skilled, compassionate, and deeply committed guide to help you navigate your own path home to yourself.

Are you ready to begin?

If you feel the call to go deeper and work together 1-on-1, I invite you to take the next step. Due to the limited number of spaces available for both coaching and therapy, I ask that you begin by filling out a short application or inquiry form. This helps me ensure that we are the right fit to embark on this sacred work together.

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